How to Find Peace, Power, and Magic in Solitude

 

A Little Intro

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So, now that you know me, let me enlighten you with my acquired knowledge on this topic.

Introduction

Solitude is all about enjoying your company and being comfortable with yourself. There is a difference between loneliness and solitude. They both might look same, but when a person is lonely, they want someone to be there for them. When you embrace solitude, you are happy with your own company. And when you are happy with your own company, you become more powerful because you don't need anyone, you know you have you.

The Emotional Benefits of Solitude

It is very important that you understand your own voice, your own feelings and inner voice. And when you are surrounded with people all the time, your inner voice can get lost in you or you might not be able to hear yourself. Solitude can give you time to connect with yourself, because even when people give you advice over something, each person speaks from their experience. And it is not necessary that what worked for someone might also work for you. It is best if you can figure out your stuff on your own. Solitude also builds self awareness. Practice solitude and your mind will be clearer, you will be able to understand and process your emotions properly. 

Solitude and Feminine Energy

Feminine energy is all about receiving, relaxing and calmness, when you stop trying to force things and obsessing over things, your energy starts becoming magnetic. One more great thing about solitude is that when you give yourself alone time, you get time to connect with your intuition, your inner voice that guides you. As women, we are already gifted with intuition, but we also need to make sure that we are able to connect with it.

Activities That Deepen Your Solitude Practice

There are a few activities that I do myself to connect with me better. Journaling your emotions is an amazing practice that you should do, you don't have to invest in journals that have many things written in it already, just get a decent journal notebook and start writing your emotions, this will help you understand yourself better. You can also take solo nature walks, because honestly nature can lift up your mood and make you connect so quickly. Meditating or just sitting in silence and solo dates are also helpful. 

What You Learn About Yourself in Solitude

You will notice that you start becoming aware of your needs, patterns, dreams, what is it that drains you and what lifts you. This is so important for you growth because when you start understanding yourself with such depth, you will start acting accordingly without draining your energy in anything that exhausts it. You will be able to find your true voice, beyond the noise.

Letting Go of the Fear of Being Alone

Understand that if you have you, you are never alone. That is what needs to be done, become your own best friend, become your own therapist, because nobody else can ever know you better than you yourself. Once you build a strong connection with yourself, fear of being alone will go away too. You don't have to wait for someone to choose you, choose yourself today.

Lastly, I'll say that solitude is a daily devotion. It is falling in love with yourself everyday. Start your journey of self love and enter your divine feminine era.

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