How to Become Soft, Receiving and Feminine in a Masculine World

 

A Little Intro

I am the creator of high on you and I am just like you. I am on a journey of finding myself, becoming better and basically becoming the woman of my dreams. I started high on you because I feel there is so much power and magic in women and majority of women live their lives not even recognizing that. I am a very spiritual woman and somehow I've had experiences in my life that has made me realize so many things, but most importantly my self-worth. I am not going to run ads for high on you or ask women to please follow because I know the women who will resonate with me will become a part of this on their own. High on you is basically about women being high on themselves, living a life with zero self-doubts, insecurity or any negative low vibration energy. My vision is to create a community of women that is so strong that it feels like a second home, a home full of love and magic where we all grow together. 

I don't show who I am anywhere and there's a reason behind it. I don't want any woman to think that she needs to look a certain way or dress a certain way to come to that higher level. Obviously if I come in front of camera I am going to make sure that my hair looks good, my face looks good and everything is perfect. But when you will see it you might think she is already in her era or she's achieved it all. I want us all to do it together. I am still becoming her and I want to share this with you all. To share my wisdom on what I have learned and to learn your wisdom as well. A huge hub of women who are determined to live their dream life is what I imagine high on you to be. So, if you want to be a high on you bestie, sister or guide and transform together, you can connect through social media platforms. The links are given below.

So, now that you know me, let me enlighten you with my acquired knowledge on this topic.

Introduction

Softness is often seen as a weakness. But honestly think about it, what does being strong bring to your mind? Well, for me it brings the idea of facing the world with a straight face, not showing emotions, and hiding your true emotions beneath a layer prepared to show to the world. How is this strength? I don't understand. As humans and especially as women, we naturally are made to feel all types of emotions, it is the natural way our bodies work. Showing them is strength. Our emotions can guide us. Feminine energy is all about softness and receiving. It doesn't chase, but it sits back and claims what it want. People think crying is weakness, I think crying is the bravest thing to do. To be able to own your emotions, that is the real strength.

What It Means to Be Receiving

Today we all, I mean women, have become so independent, which is a great thing, we hustle, we chase our dreams, we do everything we want to. But in the process, we sometimes forget that we don't have to become like men for it. We are divine feminine, we just need to tap into that energy. Think like a goddess, because you are one. Let people help you, let them serve you, allow them to do things for you. You don't have to take the entire weight on your own shoulders because that can mess up your hormones. We are not made for stress, we are made for love, receiving and getting things done for us. So, accept gifts, compliments, love and rest. And trust the universe and in it's divine timing.

How to Embody Feminine Energy Daily

Your body will naturally guide you towards it's true nature. Just move slowly, sit with yourself without rushing. You know you love to go for shopping, love investing in beauty and fashion. Because these things are in our nature, we love dressing up and looking pretty and taking care of ourselves. Invest more in yourself, enjoy your time, listen to music, let yourself loosen up. You can also use scent and touch. Love yourself.

Practices to Cultivate Softness

You can start by allowing yourself to do the things you love. Like art, dancing or singing, maybe going for a spa or shopping, just anything that you love to do. Give time to that. You can also start journaling, meditation, lighting candles and relaxing rituals. Anger is a sign of weakness, stay composed. speak with love, express yourself freely while also taking care of your energy. 

Letting Go of the 'Strong Woman' Mask

Just like I said in the beginning, you need to let yourself loose. You don't have to do everything on your own. Because pretending to be strong can slowly turn into a habit, and this habit can exhaust you in the long run. It can stress you out and you won't even realize that you are just suppressing your emotions and your feminine side.

Inner Feminine vs. Masculine Energy

We all have both the energies within us irrespective of the gender. We just need to know how to balance it. Masculine energy is about leading, initiating and providing, while feminine is about receiving, intuition and flowing. Feminine is the moon, like water. Understand energies and practice balancing it.

Affirmations for Softness and Receiving

Words carry a lot of energy and power and they can impact your life greatly as well if practiced mindfully. Practice affirmations daily, you can also journal. You can say 'I am safe to receive', 'My softness is sacred' and 'I attract with ease and grace'. 

Remember that you don't have to really work on this, because feminine energy is natural, powerful, and always available. You just need to let your energy flow and drop any unnecessary burdens off your shoulder.

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