In the society we live today, women are expected to be strong, unbreakable and take on pressure and not show that how it actually takes away the softness from us. Being a divine feminine means to live with your softness, to make your softness your power.
A Little Intro
I am the creator of high on you and I am just like you. I am on a journey of finding myself, becoming better and basically becoming the woman of my dreams. I started high on you because I feel there is so much power and magic in women and majority of women live their lives not even recognizing that. I am a very spiritual woman and somehow I've had experiences in my life that has made me realize so many things, but most importantly my self-worth. I am not going to run ads for high on you or ask women to please follow because I know the women who will resonate with me will become a part of this on their own. High on you is basically about women being high on themselves, living a life with zero self-doubts, insecurity or any negative low vibration energy. My vision is to create a community of women that is so strong that it feels like a second home, a home full of love and magic where we all grow together.
I don't show who I am anywhere and there's a reason behind it. I don't any woman to think that she needs to look a certain way or dress a certain way to come to that higher level. Obviously if I come in front of camera I am going to make sure that my hair looks good, my face looks good and everything is perfect. But when you will see it you might think she is already in her era or she's achieved it all. I want us all to do it together. I am still becoming her and I want to share this with you all. To share my wisdom on what I have learned and to learn your wisdom as well. A huge hub of women who are determined to live their dream life is what I imagine high on you to be. So, if you want to be a high on you bestie, sister or guide and transform together, you can connect through social media platforms. The links are given below.
So, now that you know me, let me enlighten you with my acquired knowledge on this topic.
The Myth of Constant Strength
From centuries women have been looked upon as if we are weak, our softness is labelled as weakness, but yet, women are expected to take upon them the entire weight of expectations of the society, be the sacrificial mother for all, and live by the rulebook prepared by men. We're thought of as weak only when it is about our freedom and free will, because then all of a sudden women are too delicate. But when it is about taking care of house, the people, men basically, we're supposed to be superheroes who can never get tired. Only a woman should be allowed to decide when she's tired and when she's not. Nobody else should get to decide what a woman is. Because if we keep thinking about the expectations of the society, it will affect your mental and physical health. It can add to stress, burnout and isolation.
Understanding Softness is Not Weakness
There is a difference between being weak and being soft. Gentleness can never be weakness. Weakness is when you can't take a stand for yourself, follow other people and cry over what other people say about you. Softness is about compassion, openness, empathy, and nurturing. You can be someone who takes your stand, gets angry when necessary and still be soft.
Why It's Okay to Rest and Receive
As women it is important to understand that the feminine is all about receiving. Allow yourself to rest, recharge and receive. Your energy should not be the one of worrying or chasing in a way that it leaves you exhausted and tired, your energy should be of trusting and receiving. You don't have to carry out all the works on your own, ask for help when necessary.
Embracing Emotional Honesty
Don't bottle up your emotions. Our bodies start to get affected by the unresolved emotions we keep storing in our body. This can start to add more stress, affect your cycle and start showing up on your face as well. It takes courage to talk about your feelings, if you do it, it will add more to your strength. You can even start journaling your emotions. No need to buy any fancy journal. Just get one simple cute notebook and start writing whatever you feel.
How to Integrate Both Strength and Softness
Start taking care of your emotions, notice when it is when you suppress yourself, when you follow the rules set by the society and start taking stand for yourself and your desires. Start embracing softness by asking for help when you need, start letting yourself be free.
The best you can do for yourself is by honoring your fierce side and tender side both. It is all about balance. When you come in your feminine energy you thrive more.
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