How To Become a Powerful Woman

First I want to ask what is the definition of powerful for you? Is it in financial terms or beauty or maybe love? At a time in my life, I thought being powerful only meant to have lots of money and freedom. Wasn't entirely wrong. But for this power to be manifested in your life, something within you has to change. Power is something that comes from within, from your thoughts, from your beliefs. Even if you earn lots of money, but you're not strong mentally, you're not powerful. Before we learn more about power, learn a little about me and high on you.

A Little Intro

I am the creator of high on you and I am just like you. I am on a journey of finding myself, becoming better and basically becoming the woman of my dreams. I started high on you because I feel there is so much power and magic in women and majority of women live their lives not even recognizing that. I am a very spiritual woman and somehow I've had experiences in my life that has made me realize so many things, but most importantly my self-worth. I am not going to run ads for high on you or ask women to please follow because I know the women who will resonate with me will become a part of this on their own. High on you is basically about women being high on themselves, living a life with zero self-doubts, insecurity or any negative low vibration energy. My vision is to create a community of women that is so strong that it feels like a second home, a home full of love and magic where we all grow together. 

I don't show who I am anywhere and there's a reason behind it. I don't any woman to think that she needs to look a certain way or dress a certain way to come to that higher level. Obviously if I come in front of camera I am going to make sure that my hair looks good, my face looks good and everything is perfect. But when you will see it you might think she is already in her era or she's achieved it all. I want us all to do it together. I am still becoming her and I want to share this with you all. To share my wisdom on what I have learned and to learn your wisdom as well. A huge hub of women who are determined to live their dream life is what I imagine high on you to be. So, if you want to be a high on you bestie, sister or guide and transform together, you can connect through social media platforms. The links are given below.

Understanding Power & Energy

The thing is that we often think of everything in the terms of physical world, like what we can see around us. But we forget that everything is literally just energy. The money we want, the clothes, all the luxury and even power, it's just all energy. This energy comes from your beliefs. And your beliefs are formed through your repeated thoughts. Once you understand this, you can start manifesting so much more easily. I practice this, if I want something, I will just repeat the thought with faith enough times until it becomes a belief, until it becomes something that my mind can believe on. 

How Will Power Come?

The power you want to see can only start to come from within. Start practicing better thoughts, stay conscious with your thoughts. Don't let your mind believe something yo don't want. You have to constantly replace your negative thoughts with the positive ones. The areas you should start bringing change in are:

1. Your Body & Outer Appearance

When someone comments badly on your body or appearance, what happens? If you are mentally strong, you might just brush it off and if you're not you'll just keep it with you. And even if you're mentally strong, then also the thought may stay in your mind. If you keep thinking about it and start questioning yourself just because of what someone else said to you, you'll just keep damaging your confidence. You need to understand that whatever someone else says is coming from their perception, it is theirs, not yours. Why give someone else so much power or importance that they can change your perception of you? No they don't deserve so much power. not your partner, not your relatives, not your friends, nobody. It is only and only you, who can decide what you want to feel about yourselves. Because when you give this power to someone else, you will always seek their approval. You should be able to look at yourself with love and pride. You are your only master.

You know I have seen so many insecure men and jealous friends who will just try to make you feel bad for how you dress or how you look. A person who loves you will never say anything in a way that can hurt you. There is always a way of saying something in a polite way to a girl, specially when it is about her looks.

2. Your Mindset

Your mindset will decide how your outer world looks. It is literally so powerful it can change your entire life. Choose your thoughts very wisely. Speak only good for yourself. If you believe in manifestation, you might know what I'm talking about. Start talking to yourself in a positive way. Tell yourself how amazing and beautiful are. Give yourself priority. Rewire your brain and drop all the self-doubts and insecurities.

3. Your Emotions

Not everybody deserves to see your real side. You know people always think that women are too emotional. You cry or you get angry and it becomes about she's over reacting. Become neutral, don't give people reactions because that satisfies their ego. That is what they wanted out of you. Be so unbothered that they get bothered. And trust me they do get bothered. When you learn control over your emotions, nobody can manipulate you and people will think twice before they say anything because they can't predict you. They won't know what you'll say or how you'll react. 

4. Your Boundaries

Create boundaries for yourself that protects your dignity. A strong powerful woman has nothing against her with anyone. Nobody should have the power to think they can destroy your image. Be very selective with your energy, the boys you date and the friends you make. You are not just any average person, treat yourself like a privilege. Learn to say no to the things you don't want to do. No need to please anyone. They can think of pleasing you, because you are a luxury. You don't have to chase people, they can keep thinking and chasing all they want. Become untouchable.

How To Change?

Here's what you can start practicing:-

1. For Appearance

Start understanding yourself. Your preferences in clothing and your body type. Learn about brands, choose good brands for yourself. Spend on yourself. You have to shift your energy if you want to shift your reality. Both will work together. You change your thoughts first, repeat it enough times, make it a belief and take action. As you start taking action, your belief will itself start strengthening because your mind is getting evidence of what you say to yourself. Choose classy brands and pieces. Even if you invest in one shirt or shoes, make sure you go for a good one instead of a cheap one. Invest in jewelry, watch and perfumes. Present yourself the way you want the world to perceive you.

2. For Mindset

You can start journaling. It will help you so much guys because when you write something, you start believing it more. Write down things about yourself you want to believe. It can be affirmations or your goals. And you don't need to buy those proper journals that that have it written in it what to write. I personally write in a pretty diary with plain pages. The reason is that it doesn't clutter my head. When I sit to write I can just write about whatever I want instead of seeing several things written already. It just diverts me from what I actually want to write about. The whole point of writing is to write with intention and freely. When you read and think and write, it shifts the focus from feeling to consciously writing.

3. For Emotions

Start meditating. This will help you take control of your mind. When you meditate you start getting enough time to decide between whether you want to react or respond. And we are aiming to respond. Understand your triggers, and then try to understand what really caused this reaction. Heal yourself from within. A powerful woman needs to be in control of herself.

4. For Boundaries

It's simple, you don't have to do much. Just stop people pleasing. If by saying no to someone because you don't want to do something, the other person leaves, let them. You should not have to bend your rules or morals for someone else. Only do something that makes you feel good or you're comfortable in. Otherwise it's should be a straight no.

My Final Message

I know it can be hard, but think of high on you as a safe space for your transformation, your emotions because I no different than you. As women, we all have faced these things at some point or the other. I am still getting better each day and I hope this can help you in some way as well. If you want to reach out to me personally and have a chat or become my bestie, you can reach out to me on:-

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Lots of Love!