Let's be honest, we all have insecurities at some point or the other. We miss so many great opportunities because of our fears that comes from our self doubts or insecurities. But do we deserve to live our lives like this? Hidden, shying away and in corners? ABSOLUTELY NOT! And for that we need to remember who we truly are, beyond our fears and doubts. That can happen only when we understand our worth. A woman who knows her worth, knows her value and demands to be treated in that way. She moves, walks and talks with energy and it can be sensed by everyone around her. As a woman we are already very powerful, but as a woman who knows her worth, she is unstoppable.
First let's know what it means to be a high value woman.
What a High Value Woman Really Is?
Some might think that being a high value woman means to buy expensive stuff or keep yourself well maintained. While, some of this is a part of being a high value woman, it is not entirely true. For becoming a that woman, you first need to start from within. Your energy, mindset, boundaries, emotional intelligence and habits is what matters the most. Being a high value woman means to know you worth, what you deserve and what you don't deserve, it is about knowing your boundaries that maintain your dignity and self-respect, it is about learning to say no to what doesn't serve you in your growth and it is about being your authentic self, without pretending to be like someone else to fit in a group.
What are the Traits of a High Value Woman?
In order to make it more clear, below is the list of practices you must follow to become her:
Emotional Mastery
I am a very emotional woman also because I am an artist. I feel things deeply, I laugh, I cry and I get angry too. But never in a way where I cannot control myself. Being a high value woman you must know that you are allowed to feel deeply, but you should never be controlled by your emotions. It took me time and practice to get to this point and you can get here too. When you learn to control and manage your emotions nobody gets to control you or fool you because you are so aware of what is right and what is wrong even when you are in your emotions. This makes you powerful. People often think that women are emotional and it is easy to manipulate them or control them, which is kind of true because in our emotions we fail to see what is actually happening. When you master your mind and emotions, you get to decide what happens. You can do this by practicing meditation, journaling, understanding what are the things that trigger certain emotions in you, work on your responding instead of reacting. When you meditate, over time your mind starts to become calm and you start understanding everything in depth. First focus on understanding what your triggers are and then start working on them by questioning your reactions what actually brings that out of you like that.
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Self-Worth Over External Validation
Validation is when you seek someone else's opinion of you to feel a certain way. It's like asking for a proof of something in you from someone else. I understand we all like to get compliments, but they are compliments and not verdicts or statements from god. Nobody can decide how you are except you. Like why would you want to give this power to someone you don't even know or someone who doesn't know you properly. When you know your self worth, when you know you're pretty, smart, intelligent and worthy of all the good things, you won't care what anybody thinks. Make your beliefs about yourself so strong that it can always uplift you instead of pulling you down. If you keep seeking external validation, first of all you never know whether it is genuine or fake and secondly it is only temporary. But the self worth you will build will be true, permanent and solid.
Boundaries Are Her Love Language
How many times have you said yes to something you didn't want to do? And you only said yes because you thought "Oh I will sound rude or I will upset them". Yeah we know, we all have been there and done that innumerable times. But choose to no longer serve someone going against your will. If you want to become a high value woman you have to understand the importance of saying no at the right time and not being guilty for choosing yourself. This is called having boundaries, where you determine what you want to do in your general life and what you will not do no matter what. This is also what will set your standard. And anybody who does not respect your boundaries can simply walk away.
Feminine Energy: Flow & Magnetism
Being in your feminine energy allows you to grow more and attract more. It is all about allowing yourself to receive and trust the universe and yourself. Doing activities that help you tap into your feminine energy like grooming yourself, taking care of yourself, investing in your beauty and self-care is an act of self-love. Start nurturing your feminine energy, stop trying to control everything around you, instead let your energy flow freely.
Purpose & Passion
We all have a passion for something, if not it is either yet to be discovered by you or you're afraid to take it up. Find it, and start following it. Make your passion your driving force. High value women value their life and it seriously, she takes her desires seriously and she is not afraid of following her passion. And trust me that way when you stay busy doing what you love, you don't have to worry about a relationship or attention. Your passion will fuel you and make you so feel so much better.
Selective, Not Scarce
High value don't need a very large group to be in. She values her energy and doesn't give access to just anybody. She knows that she attracts the right people in her life and she doesn't have to chase. When you start valuing yourself and your time you will not wish to be with people who do not match your mindset of growth. Choose quality over quantity because that is what a high value woman does.
Self- Responsibility
A high value woman does not look at herself like a victim, she is strong enough to take responsibility of her actions. She is not afraid of acknowledging her mistakes, her healing, her happiness or her triggers. She accepts her past and understands that she is growing into a better woman everyday.
Practices Silence, Solitude, and Reflection
Practice being alone and understanding yourself in silence. When you are away from all the noise of the world you get time to reflect on your thoughts and preserve your energy. High value women prefer alone time over unnecessary plans. She knows she is enough for herself and practices meditation, journaling and creates space for her own voice.
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I am also a girl just like you on a journey of self-love, self-care and becoming divine feminine who's unstoppable. I am on a mission to unite like minded women to grow together and rise higher in our lives, because when women come together magic happens. If you're someone like me and want to grow together and be a part this wholesome home full of love, you can Visit Instagram where I am growing this community- @highon.you_
You can also reach out on my mail- highonyouofficial@gmail.com
Let's become bestiesss !!
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